
I know this is totally off of the topic of Entertainment News, but I did say that we will discuss all topics. I would like to know your view points.
Are you or have you ever been in a relationship where privacy is an issue? I am all for privacy in a relationship. I think most relationships start out like this in the beginning. However, when you move in together, things get a bit complicated. Do you search through pockets? Do you check your lover's cell phone? Do you go through the other person's dresser drawers? Here's a good one. Do you check the Internet, computer, or email accounts?Does your partner expect you to respect his/her privacy, but doesn't respect your privacy?
I think that when someone asks us to respect their privacy, some of us takes it as a reason to believe that the person has something to hide. This may not be true. He/She may have already been a private person prior to your relationship. You may not have. You both may just do the opposite of the way you grew up. You may have had to share everything growing up, but now that you are an adult and want some things to yourself.
Now sometimes you will have to go through the other person's belongings. You may be doing laundry or cleaning or even paying a phone bill. It happens. There is just a thin line between snooping and not snooping. Are you going through the pockets because you are doing laundry or using laundry as an excuse to go through the pockets?
Let me hear some of your funny stories of snooping. I know you have some.
Yes, Iam a snoopy. I am created an email account to bust my boyfriend. I just knew that he was going to be a cheater. I didn't want him to be, but I thought he was. He talke to me n everything, but he just kept it strictly as a friendship. We talked for a minute and I couldn't get him to flirt with me. He kept talking about his girl friend and how much in love with he he was Ofcourse he was talkn about me. He even told me what he was gettn me for my bday. I was so busy snoopping and I ruined the surprise. Ofcourse, I acted surprised when he gav me the gift, but I stopped snoopin. I gues my snoopin helped me to trust him and i knew everything was on th up and up. Great blog.
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